DATING TIPS FOR SAVVY SINGLE LADIES GROUP GUIDELINES:
This group is specifically for smart, savvy, & single women (straight) who have created a high level of success in their careers, are looking for the same high level of success in their love lives, are intentional about dating & finding love, and who want to do so with confidence, grace, and dignity.
THE PURPOSE OF THIS SAFE GROUP IS TO:
Get frequent support from your group dating guru and leader, founder and CEO of Dating with Confidence™, Raeeka Yaghmai through posts, blogs, videos, and discussions.
Create a safe space for members to participate in discussions and to ask questions around dating and relationships so you better your dating approach in order to find the right man.
Connect with, learn from, and get support from other like-minded smart, savvy and successful women who are also on their journey to find love and who are intentional about it. You can cheer your sisters in the group, encourage them, inspire, and have compassion for them, and hear them out. YOU MAY NOT, HOWEVER, GIVE ANOTHER MEMBER DATING ADVICE – SEE BELOW.
Empower as many single women as possible while they are on their journey toward finding lasting love. If you have friends who are also single, you are welcome to invite them to this group. The more women who feel confident and happy on their journey, the better!
Share our resources with you. On occasion we offer special events and programs. As they become available, we will be informing you of those in this group. We offer both free and paid programs and events. You’ll find lots of free advice in this group, but if seeing offers turns you off, this group isn’t for you.
These rules exist in order to make this group a positive, productive, informative, supportive, effective, educational and powerful space for all of you savvy successful ladies who want to create the same success in your love lives that you have created in your careers and other areas of your lives. They are here so you can get the effective dating advice, tools, skills and not be misguided. We want you to have THE BEST experience in this group and every day have a safe place to come to, to feel inspired, empowered, and educated.
1.TRUST: What is spoken about in this group stays in the group. Consider your conversations and those of others to be confidential.
2.RESPECT: Every woman here deserves respect. While you may disagree with someone, we are here to empower each other. Disrespect will not be tolerated – NO bashing of anyone here and NO BASHING OF MEN.
3.PARTICIPATION: There are no stupid questions! Every question is valid and important. If you want to be successful, ask questions and learn what does and does not work for you. NO PMs FOR QUESTIONS – ASK QUESTIONS IN THE GROUP. If it’s a question for you I guarantee others are wondering the same thing. Don’t be afraid or embarrassed to ask – it’s what you’re here for!
Read the guidelines for participating in posts and discussions below, and reach out to me if you need any support on how to participate here. I don’t want you to feel you can’t express yourself and at the beginning, this frame of communication might feel very new to you, and I don’t want that to prevent you from participating because you are second guessing yourself. I encourage you to participate and I’ll help you reframe. A big reason for stating these guidelines is to empower you to have more effective communication which is one of the BASES of BEING IN A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP with a man.
> TO POST OR ASK A QUESTION:
Frame it in a way that you are asking for being encouraged, empowered, and informed in a positive way. Ask in way to get support on how can you be in the driver’s seat, how can you take responsibility, and what do you need to do to improve the situation. If you want a quality love life, you want to ask quality questions. The quality of what we create in our lives is all based on the quality of the questions we ask.
> STAY AWAY FROM MAKING BLANKET STATEMENTS (GENERALIZING) such as:
“All men are looking for one thing only!” or “OKCupid is an awful online dating app,” or “Men these days are not into communication or commitment,” etc. The way to express this is “In my experience with OkCupid I didn’t find any success or most of the men who contacted me wanted to hook up,” or “in my experience in dating, I am not meeting men who are interested in long term relationship,” etc.
> You can ask curious questions about a post, you can also disagree but all of which will be in a positive and empowering way.
Example: “I disagree with this statement but I understand that is what works for you” OR “I better understand where you are now.”
4.DISCUSSION: We will insist on encouraging discussion behavior that is empowering!
> TO COMMENT ON SOMEONE’S POST:
If you are responding to a post and commenting please come from a place of compassion and use “I” and “For me” statements. For example: “When I was going through this struggle, I did XXXX that helped me a lot,” or “I haven’t gone through the same thing but when I experience a similar situation/feeling, what works for me/supports me/helps me was XXX.” Anything that directs the other person to take an action, do something, or say something is a form of advice, and this isn’t allowed in the group.
> STAY AWAY FROM ANY NEGATIVE COMMENTS such as:
Leave him. Men are all like that. Dating is ridiculous these days. Chivalry is gone. etc. or anything that disempowers your sisters by making them a victim: Oh you poor thing. So sorry for you. Instead you can say things like “I have been there and know how this feels,” or “I haven’t had that same experience but I can understand feeling.”
5.SHARING INFO: You are more than welcome to share info on dates, hot dating spots, dating sites, and even experiences you have had. All posts are monitored to make sure it is in alignment with the integrity of the group.
6.PROMOTIONS: If you have a product that can benefit the group in their dating process as long as it is not competing with Dating with Confidence™, it is welcome to be shared (i.e. Beauty product, dating outfit, health product, etc.). Promoting dating services & products (coaching, matchmaking, advice, courses) is not allowed in this group. Posts will be removed & if violation repeats, you will be removed from the group. Solicitation, whether in the group or through private message or other means, is strictly prohibited.
7. FACEBOOK LIVE Q&A SESSIONS: Each week (usually on Tuesday evenings), I host a Facebook Live event. If you can’t come to the online live event, that’s okay! Simply post your questions in the Facebook Live post for the coming week, and my team and I will collect them so that everyone gets her questions answered! This is a great opportunity to get personalized dating advice from me about your specific situation and/or questions, just like my private coaching clients do.
IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO FOLLOW THESE GROUP GUIDELINES, WE WILL HAVE TO RESPECTFULLY PART WAYS SO YOU CAN FIND A BETTER GROUP THAT IS A BETTER MATCH FOR YOU.
Welcome to the group and I look forward to being a part of your journey to create your desired love life!
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